TGIF..like that's never been used *smirk*

Friday, April 21, 2006, 6:37 AM

Holy Mackanoli!! This was intense.




ColorQuiz.comPam took the free ColorQuiz.com personality test!

"Feels too much is being asked of her and is tired ..."


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You know I can't fix something if I don't know it's broke. Yesterday I went to lunch with one of the gals in my office. She and I had so much fun. I like her because she reminds me of my mum. And, I had chocolate cake. Yum! But then, I found out I offended someone in the downstairs office last week, inadvertently. She was kind enough to tell me. She has such a wonderful way about her. I had to think hard about the situation she was talking about because it was last week. Then I remembered. I was being sarcastically funny or so I thought. Everyone else or most everyone I think, laughed when I made my comment. Except for this one gal. See, that's why I gave up being sarcastic. Well, one of the reasons.
And without going on about it, it seems like I may have done something similar in the blog world. *very big sigh* But I really don't know and I am only guessing.

I could go on about how big an idiot I feel like, and how can I fix something if I don't know I've done something, or how I should have a pity party for myself and be Eeyore(sp?). I could get all tough and say well, 'not my problem'. You don't like it, make sure that back door don't hit ya. (my dad used to say that all the time...I have never liked that phrase) I could be all, "they are struggling too, just like me. I'm sure they didn't mean it and would've come to me if I appeared more approachable."

All those things that help us try to right our sense of equilibrium.

I just can't do any of it today. I have to get showered and dressed and go to work and deal with the host of problems that will pop up today. I am going to let it go. Let the universe help me figure it out. Nothing else I can do, really. Ooo, it's hard sometimes for me to give up control.

And, Shephard said it in his blog the other day, something I need to consider as well. Go take a peek. Excellent words of wisdom.

I had fun this morning over at Stacy's blog. You just can't help but smile and giggle when this song is playing.

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8 Comments:

Blogger Michael said...

I've been there too only to find out it was only in my imagination. The best approach is just to ask point blank. Don't blink.

Take Care
Michael

8:21 AM, April 21, 2006  
Blogger Pam said...

Thanks Michael. I hope the blog thing is in my imagination! :0]
Unfortunately, the work thing isn't. I'm trying to remember some words spoken by Debbie Reynolds in on of my fav movies...'Connie & Carla' but IMDB doesn't have it listed in their memorable quotes. Had something to do with chin up and shoulders back....
For me that would be chins up and try to get the shoulders back!! ;0]
My girls...Martha and Josephine, are just too heavy! LOL

8:43 AM, April 21, 2006  
Blogger John said...

I'm clueless again...but you haven't offended me once. :)

10:38 AM, April 21, 2006  
Blogger Pam said...

John--join the club. I sorta feel clueless too! ;0]

10:51 AM, April 21, 2006  
Blogger Stacy The Peanut Queen said...

I must've missed it too...no offense taken here! :)

And thanks for the shout out about the tune on my blog. I thought it VERY fitting for my blog subject of the day...;) And I always liked that song! ;)

12:42 PM, April 21, 2006  
Blogger Leesa said...

I've been known before to be a little too sarcastic and it's been taken personally. I just approach the situation and say so.
That song is great :)

1:13 PM, April 21, 2006  
Blogger Shephard said...

I used to say to a friend of mine that sarcasm is usually only funny on TV.
But really, it's just too hard to make sure everyone gets it and takes it in the spirit in which it was given. So I know what you mean.
~S :)

2:56 PM, April 21, 2006  
Anonymous HeresLucy said...

Well - i know it's not me you offended in blog world. and i agree...with Michael -- just ask.

5:52 PM, April 22, 2006  

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